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  1. My husband and I were both 40 lbs. overweight. We finally said “enough” and started counting calories, just writing down everything we ate. We lost the 40 lbs. in 6 months and have now kept it off for 2 years. It’s not necessarily which diet plan you choose, it’s ALL about getting your mind right. Best wishes to all who struggle!

  2. As a personal trainer now stay at home mom who could stand to lose 5ish lbs myself, it’s a sad fact that people are not generally kind to those trying to lose weight who are not obese. The closer one is to the (healthy) goal weight, the harder it is to reach, and when you are starting at a point that many perceive as near the finish line, I find there are more accusations than encouragement. Anyone trying to achieve weight loss needs love and support (especially, in my opinion, the anorexic ones, which you are NOT) In fact, your goal weight is not unreasonable unless you are very tall. I’m 5’1″, and my best weight is 112. I feel a huge difference in 5 lbs. Some clothes don’t fit now, but losing that 5 lbs means I can wear ALL of my clothes again!

    So, good for you! I’m interested to know what your energy level is like. I’ve been eating fairly clean, going to the gym, but I am drained from the moment I get up to the second I collapse in bed at night. Is it just that I have a two-year-old? Hmmm.

    1. Hi Tiffany! Yeah, it really bugs me when people think that just because you aren’t severely overweight, you shouldn’t even bother… “You look good already! Why are you on a diet?” I always feel like saying, “So I won’t look like YOU!” lol

      In all seriousness though, unless someone is already severely underweight and has a problem like anorexia or bulimia, then you should always encourage them!

      People especially don’t realize that for us short, petite people that 5 pounds makes a HUGE difference! It’s shocking… I’ve lost 15 pounds so far on The Dukan Diet and that was the difference between being in size 8 jeans, to now fitting in size 2 jeans. Where 15 pounds on a taller person might only be the difference between 1 jean size, it’s the difference between 3 jean sizes for me!

      Two year olds…… I’ve got one of those too. That’ll suck the damn life right out of ya…. Stay motivated however you can! And I always tell people, if you feel good about yourself, you’ll be in a better mood, you’ll treat people better and you’ll be a better mom. So don’t ever feel guilty about taking time out to take care of yourself. You will be a better person for it!

      xo

  3. Sarah, I admire that you are doing what is best for your personal health. It is important to remember that everyone has different body types and I am so sad to hear you are getting hate mail. Peoples goals can vary greatly and a healthy body has many shapes and sizes! I am 5’6″, big boned, overweight, and come from a very tall & mostly obese family. So… obviously my goal weight is way higher than yours, it just makes sense. I have seen the health affects that my parents have faced already (heart problems, diabetes and knee problems to name a few). I would like to lose 10-20 lbs to be healthy and inspire my kids to have a healthy lifestyle. My first approach will be adding a regular exercise routine, mine has been sporadic at best since my youngest son. Best wishes with your journey, and enjoy your friend’s wedding!

    1. Hi Beth! Thank you for taking the time to read and leave a comment! Yes, it’s so true. The perfect weight is different for everyone. What I like about the Dukan Diet if you can calculate your “true weight” based on your personal build, weight history, etc. If I had came up with a goal weight myself, it would have been more like 110 pounds because that’s what I always used to weight before I had kids. Dukan helps you find an attainable and maintainable weight. I am really happy with this diet and I highly recommend it. If you want to borrow my book, let me know!

  4. Thank you!!!!!!!!!! And good for you! You keep up the good work on your diet and let me know if you have any questions! I’ve kept the weight off for 6+ months now and I feel like I have a new lease on life! :-)

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