Can you imagine going on 100 to 200 first date before finding the true love of your life? Well, you might be surprised to learn that there are lots of people out there that go on this many first dates. At least when you have been on this many first dates, you are probably prepared for just about any situation that could arise. Anything from feeling those butterflies at first sight to meeting your date and finding out that they completely lied about their age and looks. Whatever the situation is, you need to be prepared and ready. Below, you will learn about some amazing first date tips that will allow you to truly have an amazing first date.
Put Though Into Your Dinner Conversations
The main problem with most first dates is that they choose a dinner platform. Of course, there is nothing wrong with this, but grabbing a coffee of drink is a much better option. If you are going to have a dinner first date, you need to have at least an hour and half to two hour conversation list planned out. Otherwise, there is just going to be a lot of awkward silence and unexpected trips to the bathroom, which is going to make your date think you are uninterested. Plan ahead for great dinner conversation.
Wear What Makes Your Feel Confident
It is always important to feel your best on a first date and you want to wear clothing that will make you feel your best. For instance, if you are a woman and you feel great wearing heels, even though you are already taller than most men, you should continue to wear your heels. Of course, you will probably soar over most of the men that you met, but this is going to make you feel confident and at your best. The same thing goes for men. If you are accustomed to wear suits everyday and feel empowered, while wearing a suit then this might be your clothing of option. Even if the date seems more like a casual date, you will be better off in what makes you feel comfortable.
Get Them Talking About Their Interests
When people talk about thing that they are interested in or passionate about they become a better version of themselves. They speak with more confidence; more flare, and are all around just a better version of their original self. Try to find out what kind of interests and passions that your date has. It might turn out that the two of you are passionate and have the exact same interests.
Don’t Smoke Right Away
When it comes to smoking on a first date this is something that you want to shy away from. Of course, you do not want to misrepresent yourself, but some non-smokers find smoking and the smell of tar and nicotine to be highly offensive. A better option is to break out the eliquid and take a few puffs from your vaporizer. The smell is almost non-existent and your date probably won’t even know that you are a smoker.