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Help Your Kids Become Responsible Young Adults

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As a parent, it’s all you can do to look after your children. And you can do this if you help your kids become responsible young adults and teenagers when they leave home or go to college. It’s a long road. But with the right guidance and support, you can get there together.

Develop a Healthcare Routine

Health and hygiene are crucial for developing children. This includes washing and bathing, personal grooming, and even their diet. Healthcare also extends to dental hygiene. Basic oral health and high quality orthodontic care when they are young pay off later when they become more self-conscious.

Play as a Reward for Work

Before they get older, your kids may have a hard time staying focused. But you can begin to teach them to do their chores before they play or relax. They will understand if you say, “You can, in fact, play Fortnite. But you have to empty your laundry basket first.” Try to be friendly and nonchalant about it to show them that you’re not trying to boss them around. You just want them to act appropriately responsible for their age and explain how it’s for their own good.

Kids Become Responsible Young Adults from Example

Start taking care of your personal things and the home to show your child what it means to be responsible. For example, instead of tracking mud into the living room, leave your dirty shoes in the hallway. Or, right after doing the laundry, fold the clothes and put them away. Tell your child why you’re performing various actions so they can learn. For example, tell them you’re folding the laundry and putting it away so you can find your clothes when you need to iron them.

Praise Efforts and a Job Well Done

Give your child lots of praise and attention whenever they try to act sensibly, even if they don’t succeed. This demonstrates to your kids that you value and care about what they do. Say things like, “You did so well putting your dishes in the sink.” to be as specific as possible. It also helps to show how their work has helped everyone else, like making room at the table so we can all eat dessert. This teaches family respect and the consequences of doing good actions for all.

Help Them Create Schedules

Most young people are socially busy, on top of schoolwork. So to act responsibly, they often need a little help with managing their time. Sit down with them and go over their schedule. Talk to them about how much time they need for household tasks, coursework, and activities outside of school. Talk with them about making a schedule that suits them best. For example, one teen might want to do their schoolwork after class, while another might want to rest a little first.

Teach the Most Essential Skills

You might find that you still learn new things as you go through life. So how could you expect a teenager to know these things? You can’t do it. But you can help them by teaching them some of the most important life skills you’ve picked up along the way. These often include:

  • Teach your children how to be responsible with money and finances.
  • Help them understand the importance of fresh and varied nutrition.
  • Let them know that they shouldn’t follow celebrity trends in fashion and be themselves.
  • Showing them basic first-aid skills can help them help themselves and others.
  • Teach your young adults social skills such as manners and how to address others.
  • Help them get jobs by practicing interview techniques and how to write resumés.
  • Self-management and emotional control will help your kids cope early in life.
  • Show them the rewards that come with helping others, such as classmates.
  • Explain how to drive responsibly and respect the road and other road users.
  • Help them cope with their emotions when something is challenging.
  • Finally, teach them the basics of respect for other people’s feelings.

Just one of these skills will go a long way toward helping your kids become responsible teens who can take better care of themselves. But getting involved in their lives and showing them many of these things will give them great skills they can use as they start their adult lives.

Encourage Activities with Life Skills

Make sure you give your teen enough time to teach them life skills. It’s important to know how to do things like washing and cooking meals. But it’s also important that your teen understands how to manage money and communicate well with others. Some of these skills may be easy for your kids to pick up just by watching you. But they won’t learn everything that way. Some skills need a more active approach. And you are in a unique position to demonstrate some of these.

Develop Life Goals Together

Talking to your teen about their dreams and long-term plans can help them deal with emotional expectations, like attending college. Or, if they have a dream career goal they want, work with them and figure out how to get them there. Having smaller goals helps. Take small steps, for example, and keep the big goal in mind as you go. But tell them that the trip is up to them. Tell them that their path is theirs alone and that only hard work can make it come true.

Help Them Become Responsible Young Adults with Trust

As your kids get older and become teenagers and young adults, trust is one of the most important things to work on. It’s not easy, but you have to learn to trust that your teen will make good decisions. If they say it’s fine for them to be alone overnight when you have to work, you can trust that they won’t have a party. Even if your gut tells you otherwise, try to ignore it. Your trust gives them the push they need to be more responsible, and once it’s there, it’s hard to lose.

Teach Them Time Management

It’s crucial to show your teen how to manage their time. Time management is an important part of being a responsible person. Teens who plan how they spend their time will make better choices. Also, they’ll have less stress and worry. And as helpful as time management can be right away, it can be even more helpful in the long run. Not least when they go to college and have to figure out how to get to class and balance work, life, and school against each other.

Respect the Changes They Are Going Through

If you have an adolescent, you probably know how it feels to be treated badly. Teenagers often do things like roll their eyes, sigh loudly, or stay in their rooms. This is normal. And as a parent, you have to accept this, no matter how mad it makes you. Teenagers are changing, and most of the time, their behavior is nothing personal. So showing respect is the best way to teach respect. Respect their feelings and try not to rush them through this crucial development stage.

Summary

As parents, you need to teach them certain things while they are still young. Therefore, you can help your kids become responsible young adults, ready to take on the world. You can help them with healthcare, teach them crucial life skills like cooking, and help them through adolescence.

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Looking at pictures of my last birth makes me grie Looking at pictures of my last birth makes me grieve my baby in Heaven that I just lost a few weeks ago. 

Knowing all the firsts we won’t be getting. All the newborn snuggles, that new baby smell, the joy of breastfeeding, it’s all gone. Slipped through my fingers in a moment, for no reason. 

No one thinks it will ever happen to them. Nothing prepares you for the loss of your child and no one can fully understand and appreciate the intense level of grief and pain until it happens to you. And if you do not understand this kind of grief, consider yourself very, very blessed and fortunate. 

Sometimes being open to life, also means being open to loss. 💔

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READ this post before you LIKE it. 💔💔💔 A READ this post before you LIKE it. 💔💔💔

A few weeks ago, we were planning to announce that baby #6 would be joining our crew in January 2023, but instead we've been processing the death of our beloved child... 

At our 20 week anatomy scan, when we were joyfully expecting to see what our little babe looked like, we were met the words that will haunt us forever - "We can't find a heartbeat."

Two days later, we found ourselves in a foreign environment, after 5 beautiful homebirths, naturally delivering our stillborn son in a hospital. 

Dylan Marinus Ballard was born on August 31st, (our first son's birthday) at 6:43pm and weighing only 7.5 oz. 

Tearfully and filled with grief beyond words, we had to say hello and goodbye at the same time. Our beautiful son. 

Seeing his face, holding his tiny body, and admiring his little toes that looked just like daddy's was just a glimpse into the miracle of life that God allows us to partake in. When you fully realize the sanctity of human life, it makes it even harder to say goodbye. Not being able to take my baby home with me was the most gut wrenching, heartbreaking pain imaginable. It is a pain unlike all others that only mothers who have lost a child can even begin to understand. 

The hardest part of losing a child, is living everyday afterwards. It's such a devastating loss, a loss so unimaginable, that you have no idea how you will get through each day or survive the grief that is in your heart. No matter what age a child is, a parent's heart is forever tied to that child and there's nothing that will break that tie, including the passing of time. That's the beauty of unconditional love. 

Our only consolation is knowing that our little saint is in the loving arms of Jesus now. We look forward to meeting him in Heaven someday.

📷 birth photography by Melissa Lee Photography

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Some of my favorite fall eats here! 😋 What ar Some of my favorite fall eats here! 😋 

What are your favorite fall comfort foods???

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Need an easy solution for dinner but don’t want Need an easy solution for dinner but don’t want fast food? @wildgrainbox delivers bake-from-frozen breads, pastries, and fresh pasta right to your door!

Clean ingredients, real sourdough, artisanal pastries, hand cut fresh pasta, eco friendly shipping, and they support small bakeries! 👩🏼‍🍳

Every item is freezer to table in 25 minutes or less so you can enjoy homemade quality food, FAST. I whipped up a loaf of sourdough bread and delicious pasta with marinara sauce in under 30 minutes for me and my husband to enjoy a little date night at home. It was like going to a fancy Italian restaurant, but we go to eat in our pajamas!

We love that Wildgrain is passionate about delivering slow-fermented sourdough bread‘s, fresh pasta, and artisan pastries directly to your door and I love that they are local to me! 

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Introducing Caraway’s most requested products, t Introducing Caraway’s most requested products, the NEW Mini Fry Pan & Mini Sauce Pan!!! 

By popular demand, they now have miniature versions of their two best-selling À La Carte pieces, now in compact and cute sizes!! 

These are designed for cooking smaller portions and are a perfect complement to your current Caraway cookware collection. 

🥳Get 10% off the new Mini Fry Pan & Mini Sauce Pan using my link in my bio! 🥳

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What better way to welcome fall than with @caraway What better way to welcome fall than with @caraway_home latest products, the Mini Fry Pan & Mini Sauce Pan!!! 

By popular demand, they now have miniature versions of their two best-selling À La Carte pieces, now in compact & cute sizes. These are designed for cooking smaller portions and make the perfect complement to your current Caraway collection. 

Get 10% off the new Mini Fry Pan & Mini Sauce Pan using my link! 🛒

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Can you imagine a more beautiful thing?! I can’t Can you imagine a more beautiful thing?! I can’t! 🤣

My son is loving our @treasuresfromjennifer calendar and keeping track of the days now. He keeps telling me how many days it is until the first day of fall rather than asking me 900 times “when is it going to be fall, mama?!” 😜

Do you have a calendar or weather board in your home for your children? 

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