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5 DIY Projects You Shouldn’t Try To Tackle

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So you wanted to create cabinet drawers or maybe perhaps you want to retile the kitchen floor. You say to yourself that you can do it and you just cannot pay the extra buck for the help you “know” you do not need. The only problem is, you are wrong.

It is true that quite a lot of household repairs and upgrades can be done by a homeowner that is handy with a hammer. But there are still quite a lot of home changes that you should leave to the professionals.

Part of millennial thinking is a constant need for affirmation. We love to challenge ourselves, especially by doing something we are not used to. The first mistake, most of us make is believing that a 5 minute YouTube video is a sufficient alternative for years of professional experience. And I can’t blame you. These YouTube personalities do make everything look so easy at times.

Sure, there are some positive things that can come out from a failed DIY projects. It is all laughs and giggles when all you have done is whip a few wasted cash and all that you suffered is burning a finger or two, or a painful papercut. The real danger comes when the “millennial thinking” leads you to permanent injuries or even death.

When doing a DIY project, the odds are against you. A study at Stockholm University showed that about 78% of DIY projects end up being scrapped and 67% of those will have already done significant damage to the house. The study also mentioned that when accounting for the cost that a DIY project accumulates, about 75% of these projects would have been cheaper being done by a professional.

So which of these projects should you never do by yourself? Here are some examples.

1. Repainting Your Cabinets

How hard can it be? You know how to paint a wall. How hard can it be to paint something so much smaller like cabinet boxes? You would be surprised at how hard it can be. And it should not even be compared. When repainting your kitchen cabinets, you have to be wary that the cabinet is made up of several parts which are held together by moving hinges. Paint can easily get into these hinges and mess up the entire box.

Cabinets are also typically made of wood and you need to take care not to ruin the wood in such a way that would make removing the paint later an impossible task. Wood is often less consistent in texture and will prove a challenge to create an evenly painted surface on it.

It would do you better to just call a professional and let him do your cabinet repainting for you. Walls are easy enough to tackle, but big projects like painting your kitchen cabinets can be more than you bargained for.

2. Carpet Installation

A 2014 study from NYU showed that the first major refurbishment done by a homeowner to his/her house is to install carpets that span their entire bedroom and living room. Carpets are one of those inexpensive upgrades that will not cost an arm and a leg. And at the same time, these carpets are comfy and give your house a more homely feel.

When installing a carpet, homeowners often find out the hard way how tough it is to glue something evenly on the floor. And it gets a lot tougher when the floor itself is uneven. Carpets are deceptively heavy and fragile to tearing. A few inches off of the intended target could result in a tear and, not to mention, a lot of annoying wrinkles on the carpet.  These wrinkles are hazards to foot traffic and are just eyesores.

Carpet installation yields many things to consider, like the type of carpet, the type of floor and many other factors. Additionally, it also means doing a lot of work. Imagine all the measuring, cutting, trimming and glueing that you are going to have to do. It is probably best to leave carpet installations to professionals.

3. Replacing the Ceiling

Of the major house modifications, this is probably the most dangerous. A house’s ceiling is typically 12 feet off the base. When climbing a ladder to reach the ceiling, falling from this height is enough to cause serious injury. And as you go higher, it also becomes more difficult to maintain balance.

According to recent statistics, at least a 100 people die in ladder related accidents in the US each year. Ladders are dangerous enough but at least it’s a tool you can use, but what about the spots in your house that are not ladder accessible. It would take a special kind of skill to successfully work on these parts of the ceiling.

While getting there is tough enough, this is just part of what you have to do when replacing the ceiling. Think of all the drywall and insulation that you have to simultaneously take care off. Bottomline is, ceiling replacement is tricky business and should be left to professionals.

4. Floor Tiles

Floor tile installation have come a long way. Back then, you had to carefully level each tile as you go to ensure that the tiles are even. Today, there are laser guides to make sure you are on the right track. However, this does not mean you should do this by yourself!

Aside from the mastery needed to use these relatively expensive pieces of equipment, floor tile installation in itself is a burden.

ImproveNet’s data ranks 32 common projects by regret levels. At the top of the list of what people regret most is installing floor tiles, followed by replacing the ceiling, refinishing hardwood floors, installing carpet, and finishing the basement; 40 percent of people who attempt a flooring DIY project regret it—may be a sign that jobs of this sort are best left to the pros. Click here to learn more. 

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Leave it to professionals to carefully cut, plot and install your tiles for you.

Final Word

Some DIY projects are fun. There is no debate there. But when you are doing something yourself, the fun part should be the barometer. When you start feeling that diving headfirst into a project will no longer be a happy ride, you should take a step back and ask yourself if the working on it by yourself is truly worth it. Let the professional handle it and maybe assemble some furniture else from some Swedish store or repaint a room.

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Looking at pictures of my last birth makes me grie Looking at pictures of my last birth makes me grieve my baby in Heaven that I just lost a few weeks ago. 

Knowing all the firsts we won’t be getting. All the newborn snuggles, that new baby smell, the joy of breastfeeding, it’s all gone. Slipped through my fingers in a moment, for no reason. 

No one thinks it will ever happen to them. Nothing prepares you for the loss of your child and no one can fully understand and appreciate the intense level of grief and pain until it happens to you. And if you do not understand this kind of grief, consider yourself very, very blessed and fortunate. 

Sometimes being open to life, also means being open to loss. 💔

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READ this post before you LIKE it. 💔💔💔 A READ this post before you LIKE it. 💔💔💔

A few weeks ago, we were planning to announce that baby #6 would be joining our crew in January 2023, but instead we've been processing the death of our beloved child... 

At our 20 week anatomy scan, when we were joyfully expecting to see what our little babe looked like, we were met the words that will haunt us forever - "We can't find a heartbeat."

Two days later, we found ourselves in a foreign environment, after 5 beautiful homebirths, naturally delivering our stillborn son in a hospital. 

Dylan Marinus Ballard was born on August 31st, (our first son's birthday) at 6:43pm and weighing only 7.5 oz. 

Tearfully and filled with grief beyond words, we had to say hello and goodbye at the same time. Our beautiful son. 

Seeing his face, holding his tiny body, and admiring his little toes that looked just like daddy's was just a glimpse into the miracle of life that God allows us to partake in. When you fully realize the sanctity of human life, it makes it even harder to say goodbye. Not being able to take my baby home with me was the most gut wrenching, heartbreaking pain imaginable. It is a pain unlike all others that only mothers who have lost a child can even begin to understand. 

The hardest part of losing a child, is living everyday afterwards. It's such a devastating loss, a loss so unimaginable, that you have no idea how you will get through each day or survive the grief that is in your heart. No matter what age a child is, a parent's heart is forever tied to that child and there's nothing that will break that tie, including the passing of time. That's the beauty of unconditional love. 

Our only consolation is knowing that our little saint is in the loving arms of Jesus now. We look forward to meeting him in Heaven someday.

📷 birth photography by Melissa Lee Photography

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Some of my favorite fall eats here! 😋 What ar Some of my favorite fall eats here! 😋 

What are your favorite fall comfort foods???

#momlife #homemaker #octobervibes #feelslikefall
Need an easy solution for dinner but don’t want Need an easy solution for dinner but don’t want fast food? @wildgrainbox delivers bake-from-frozen breads, pastries, and fresh pasta right to your door!

Clean ingredients, real sourdough, artisanal pastries, hand cut fresh pasta, eco friendly shipping, and they support small bakeries! 👩🏼‍🍳

Every item is freezer to table in 25 minutes or less so you can enjoy homemade quality food, FAST. I whipped up a loaf of sourdough bread and delicious pasta with marinara sauce in under 30 minutes for me and my husband to enjoy a little date night at home. It was like going to a fancy Italian restaurant, but we go to eat in our pajamas!

We love that Wildgrain is passionate about delivering slow-fermented sourdough bread‘s, fresh pasta, and artisan pastries directly to your door and I love that they are local to me! 

WANT TO TRY IT?! The first 50 people to use my coupon code and link can get $30 off their first box PLUS free croissants in every box! 

Use coupon code FASHIONABLEWIFE to snag this deal QUICK! 💃🏼

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Introducing Caraway’s most requested products, t Introducing Caraway’s most requested products, the NEW Mini Fry Pan & Mini Sauce Pan!!! 

By popular demand, they now have miniature versions of their two best-selling À La Carte pieces, now in compact and cute sizes!! 

These are designed for cooking smaller portions and are a perfect complement to your current Caraway cookware collection. 

🥳Get 10% off the new Mini Fry Pan & Mini Sauce Pan using my link in my bio! 🥳

#momlife #homemaker #homelifestyle #kitcheninspo
What better way to welcome fall than with @caraway What better way to welcome fall than with @caraway_home latest products, the Mini Fry Pan & Mini Sauce Pan!!! 

By popular demand, they now have miniature versions of their two best-selling À La Carte pieces, now in compact & cute sizes. These are designed for cooking smaller portions and make the perfect complement to your current Caraway collection. 

Get 10% off the new Mini Fry Pan & Mini Sauce Pan using my link! 🛒

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Can you imagine a more beautiful thing?! I can’t Can you imagine a more beautiful thing?! I can’t! 🤣

My son is loving our @treasuresfromjennifer calendar and keeping track of the days now. He keeps telling me how many days it is until the first day of fall rather than asking me 900 times “when is it going to be fall, mama?!” 😜

Do you have a calendar or weather board in your home for your children? 

#homeschoolmom #homeschoolroom #homeschoollife #homeschoollookslikethis
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