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Getting Past Some of the Toughest Struggles of Being a Single Mom

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Most parents didnโ€™t plan to raise their children alone. They ultimately want their children to be raised in a two-parent household where they can get the all-around love, attention, and care they need. Unfortunately, however, this happy ending doesnโ€™t always come true for every family. When a household is torn apart by a breakup or divorce, in many instances, the mother takes on a brunt of the responsibility of caring for their children.

 

Thereโ€™s a Lot on Your Plate

Even with a cooperative co-parenting relationship, the stresses of being a single mother are plentiful. As if being a working wife and mother werenโ€™t stressful, you now have to learn how to adjust your life and the lives of your children. Dealing with the guilt, fear, financial strain, lack of socialization, and pent-up emotions of the breakup can feel unbearable. It has even been known to trigger anxiety, depression, and reckless behavior like opioid abuse in young women. The best way to ensure this doesnโ€™t consume you is to pinpoint your concerns and develop logical ways of dealing with them.

 

Financial Strain

One of the biggest changes to deal with after a divorce is the finances. What used to be a two-income household has now become one, leaving you to foot the brunt of the costs of caring for your children. Though you canโ€™t force your ex-spouse to pay you more and you canโ€™t make money appear out of the sky, there are some things you can do to minimize the stress of finances:

  • Downsize to a more affordable home
  • Create a budget and eliminate unnecessary spending
  • If your income is extremely low, look for government assistance for women with children

 

Fear of Going it Alone

Will you be able to give the children what they need on your own? Parenting is difficult with a partner, so the fear of doing it without them (on a full-time basis) can be stressful. Wondering if youโ€™ll make the right decisions, hoping youโ€™re tending to their needs, and other fears are common but can be reduced by doing the following:

  • Work with your ex and not against them (meaning contact them to get advice, value their input, and build a solid co-parenting relationship)
  • Look to others who care for your children like family members, teachers, coaches, and mentors.
  • Get support from other parents you may know who have similar parenting styles or values to your own.

 

Lost Sense of Self

When youโ€™re a single mother, time is something you just donโ€™t have much of. You spend a bulk of your time caring for the kids, working, and tending to the house. This leaves little to no room for you to focus on yourself. Though you may need to put your childrenโ€™s needs first at the beginning of a separation or divorce, it is imperative not to forget about yourself. Finding the balance between being a woman and a mother will only improve things at home and give you a sense of peace with moving on.

  • Ask family to babysit while you go out. If youโ€™re not going out every day of the week, they shouldnโ€™t have a problem with keeping the kids while you enjoy yourself. If not, consider hiring a babysitter such as a teenager you trust from the neighborhood as it can be more affordable.
  • Find functions that are family-friendly or have designated areas for children so you can hang with your friends.
  • Practice self-care including getting good sleep, pampering yourself, exercising, eating right, and doing things you love. You might also try something new like going back to school or taking up a new hobby.

 

Being a single mother is no joke. It requires you to put all of your energy into making sure that your kids have the best childhood possible. Though you may be doing a bulk of the work on your own, there are ways to simplify your life. Start by talking with your network of support (including your ex), and then create a plan that effectively allows you to raise your children without forgetting to care for yourself.

ย For more tips on Getting Past Some of the Toughest Struggles of Being a Single Mom visitย mymommyneedsthat.com

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on March 22, 2018 at 3:38 PM
Filed Under: Home Life, Parenting, Stay At Home Moms
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Sarah-Jean Ballard is the Editor in Chief of The Fashionable Housewife blog and Founder of Fashionable Media. Married to a sexy Molecular Biologist, housewife, mom to 5, homeschooler, Certified Personal Nutritionist and entrepreneur who's mission is to help moms just like you look and feel GREAT! Other interests include dancing, yoga, positive intactivism, natural birth and breastfeeding support, babywearing, paleo & gluten-free cooking, and promoting an overall healthy lifestyle to all.

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Canโ€™t believe my oldest son is 13 and outside helping dad do home projects like building a new deck. ๐Ÿคฏ Seems like yesterday he was in his walker on this back deck and it looked a lot better ๐Ÿ˜‚

Thankful that @homedepot has great prices so we could finally afford to do this home reno project! ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿป๐ŸŽ‰

#motherhood #motherhoodunplugged #hereisourhomeschool #motherhoodthroughinstagram
My first born son turned 13 years old today. ๐Ÿ˜ฑ My first born son turned 13 years old today. ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

Somebody hold me. ๐Ÿ˜ญ

I asked him if he could stay 12 for one more year but he didnโ€™t like that idea. ๐Ÿ˜’ Was worth a shot, right? 

Scroll for the outtakes ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

This kid blows me away daily and makes me so proud to be his mom. I donโ€™t have enough words to describe how much I love this child. ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Drop a comment and wish this boy a happy birthday! ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‚ 

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Luckily, there are holistic wellness products that can help make the motherhood journey easier!

Lost Empire Herbs stands out as a remarkable family venture led by three health-conscious brothers who share a profound dedication to a wholesome, active lifestyle. 

Their journey began with a modest kitchen table and the introduction of pine pollen, but it has since evolved into something truly remarkable, exceeding all expectations.๐Ÿ˜ฑ

What truly sets Lost Empire Herbs apart is their extensive collective knowledge, derived from years of hands-on experience, unwavering commitment, and a willingness to explore new horizons. Driven by a genuine desire to enhance lives, they made a resolute decision to make the benefits of these exceptional herbs accessible to a wider audience. 

Their primary focus revolves around offering hormonal support, a vital consideration given the prevalence of endocrine-disrupting compounds in today's world, although their scope extends beyond this singular realm. ๐ŸŒฑ 

I'm genuinely enthused about the prospect of trying out their products, eagerly anticipating the chance to personally experience the transformative effects of these wellness herbs. The brothers' evident passion and expertise have left me intrigued and eager to embark on a journey towards total wellness, guided by the offerings of Lost Empire Herbs.

@lostempireherbs #lostempireherbs #holistichealth #holistichealing #holisticwellness #holisticlifestyle #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodjourney #motherhoodthroughinstagram #unleashthepowerofnature #rootingforyourhealth #hormonehealth @apexdropofficial
Slow down a little and visit @storylandnh !! It s Slow down a little and visit @storylandnh !!

It seems like summer is almost over and youโ€™re probably scrambling to get all the things done on your bucket list. But donโ€™t forget to slow down and have some fun with your kids this summer!!

Story Land in Glen NH is a great way to make some beautiful summer memories with your family! If you live in the New England area, definitely plan a visit before summer slips through your fingers, mama! โ˜€๏ธ ๐Ÿ–๏ธ 

LIKE + SHARE if you needed this reminder to slow down and have fun! 

#motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodjourney #momlifeunfiltered #motherhoodrising #motherhoodthroughinstagram
Looking for something fun to do in New Hampshire t Looking for something fun to do in New Hampshire this summer? Living Shores Aquarium in Glen NH is an indoor walk through adventure that allows your whole family to discover the wonders of the ocean year-round. 

The aquarium includes interactive tide pools, exhibits, and tons of immersive activities. See otters, touch sting rays and nibble fish, interact with tropical birds and so much more. They even have axolotls and sharks! There is so much to see. We spent over 3 hours exploring the exhibits! And of course we had to stop in the amazing gift shop before we left. Donโ€™t miss it! 

Living Shores is a fun, interactive environment that is perfect for the whole family! If youโ€™re going to visit the White Mountains this summer, definitely make time to stop at @livingshoresnh! ๐Ÿ  ๐ŸŸ ๐Ÿฆ€ 

COMMENT and tell me which part your kiddos would like the best! ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿป

 #familytime #motherhoodunplugged #momlifeunfiltered #whitemountains #familygoals #familyfriendly
Donโ€™t be fooled. You donโ€™t need the perfect br Donโ€™t be fooled. You donโ€™t need the perfect branch to hang a swing in your yard. All you need is a tree and Slackers Build A Branch!

I got mine from @bolderplay! ๐Ÿฅณ

Would this product solve a common problem for you too?! Comment and let me know! ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿป

Motherhood is hard. Sometimes cool products make it easier! ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ

#motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodrising #momlifebelike #motherhoodthroughinstagram #motherhoodjourney
Youโ€™re so exhausted you feel like youโ€™re gonna Youโ€™re so exhausted you feel like youโ€™re gonna die, but thenโ€ฆ
.
.
.
.
.
.
SURPRISE!!
.
.
You canโ€™t fall asleep!!!!!
.
.
.
Oh the joys of motherhood! Anyone else relate?!! ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ๐Ÿฅฑ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ

#momhumor #honestmom #parentinghumor #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodjourney #motherhoodrising
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