5 Things You Should Actually Let Your Kids Do From Time to Time
Looking for some unorthodox parenting tips? I’ve got just the thing! There are so many things that we parents think are huge no-nos if we want to raise children that are as healthy, happy, and successful as possible. But the truth is, we should actually be letting our kids do these big “no-nos” once in a whole if we want them to be as well-rounded as human beings as they can possibly be!
Want to know what those no-nos are?
1. Play Games (With Good Boundaries)
Yes, gaming gets a bad rep, but hear me out—letting your kids spend some time gaming isn’t going to turn them into zombies. In fact, some games, like spider solitaire and Minecraft, for example, are brilliant for developing problem-solving skills, hand-eye coordination, and even teamwork. Plus, after a long day of school, a little time spent saving the world (virtually, of course) can help them unwind. It’s all about balance. You’re not raising a pro gamer (unless you are, in which case, cool), but giving them a bit of screen time now and then can actually be beneficial. Bonus: it gives you a break too!
2. Make a Mess (Within Reason)
Yes, we all love a tidy house, but sometimes, kids just need to make a mess and climb on the furniture. Whether it’s finger-painting, baking (more flour on the floor than in the bowl), or just building an epic fort out of every pillow in the house—embrace the chaos from time to time. It might drive you slightly mad in the moment, but letting them be creative and a bit wild is great for their imagination. Plus, you can make cleaning up part of the fun, right? Who doesn’t love a good “race to tidy” challenge? (Spoiler: not your kids, but still.)
3. Stay Up Late (On Special Occasions, Obviously)
Remember the thrill of being allowed to stay up past your bedtime? For kids, it’s like discovering hidden treasure. Every now and then, let them stay up late—whether it’s to finish a movie, watch a meteor shower, or have a family game night that runs a little longer than expected. It won’t wreck their sleep forever, and the excitement they feel will create memories far more valuable than an extra hour of shut-eye. Just don’t make a habit of it… we don’t need feral, sleep-deprived little monsters running around all week.
4. Choose Their Own Clothes (No Matter How Weird)
Sure, letting your kids pick out their own clothes might result in some interesting fashion choices—think polka dots with stripes and a superhero cape for a quick trip to the supermarket—but who cares? Giving them the freedom to express themselves through their wardrobe choices teaches independence and lets them develop their own style. Besides, there’s nothing quite like the look on their face when they proudly declare, “I dressed myself today!” Rock that cape, kid.
5. Eat Dessert First (Because Why Not?)
Let’s break the rules a little here—who says you have to eat dinner before dessert? Every so often, let your kids dive into their pudding first. Whether it’s ice cream, a slice of cake, or just some biscuits, switching up the routine is harmless fun. They’ll think it’s the best day ever, and guess what? The world won’t end because you had pudding before pizza. Just make sure they still eat their veggies next time!
Sometimes, bending the rules is the smartest thing you can do as a parent, so what are you waiting for? Take advantage of these parenting tips today!