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Something I Just Can’t Wear…

April 5, 2010 By

Here in LA, the weather turned Springy and gorgeous last week, which got me itching for flirty new blouses.  I hit my favorite shops filled with optimism and energy, and I found some fabulous pieces.  But not before coming to terms with a style that just doesn’t look good on me.  Behold:

Anthurium blouse ($88 at Anthropologie.com), Lush appliqued charmeuse top ($38 marked to $18.90 at Nordstrom.com), Coterie of Flowers top ($24.99 at ShopRuche.com)

Three adorable empire-waist tops.  All of which would look awful on me.

You see, when the good Lord was passing out the bosoms, He gave me a heaping helping.  But then when He got around to distributing height, He got stingy.  And if there’s one fashion equation you can take to the bank, it is:

Abundance of bosoms + Lack of height + Empire-waist top = DISASTER

I would say this style makes me look pregnant, but that would be an insult to stylish pregnant ladies everywhere.  No, it’s more like  ”hobbit”.  I’m sure you understand why I don’t want to look like a hobbit.

So the other night- after trying on about 45 empire tops -I finally accepted that it’s never going to work.  While a defined natural waist looks best on me, I can also pull off wrap tops, kimonos, drop-waists… I can even rock a tunic!  But the choppiness of a blouse combined with the proportion of the empire cut makes me look like one giant bosom.  Okay- two giant bosoms, but you get the point.

And now that I’ve given up on this style, I feel liberated.  No matter how seductively those empire-waists call to me with their aura of carefree Summer fun, I can walk right by.  Which leaves me free to concentrate on all the fabulous looks that are right for me- the ones that make me look and feel my best.

So how about you?  Is there a style that just doesn’t work for you?  And do you think this can change as your style evolves?

Lucie Amberg is also a contributor to Powder Room Graffiti.

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Advice Directly From Stacy and Clinton- Part 3

February 15, 2010 By

I still have a bit more to share about meeting What Not to Wear’s Stacy and Clinton at the Discovery Communications 25th anniversary gala, which tells you just how gracious, charming, and generous they were.

Our conversation focused on how today’s busy woman can maintain a stylish look and how important it is to do so.  Fans of WNTW know that Stacy and Clinton view style as a means for women to take control of their lives, and we can all benefit from this empowering message.  After all, we can’t always control how long we wait at the pediatrician’s office, how much unexpected car repairs cost, or how many hours a frustrating work project takes, but we can certainly make sure we look good while we’re dealing with it!

Stacy was adamant that investing in yourself is really about time, not money.  Since time is in short supply for most of us, a few simple guidelines can help you make the most of the moments you spend thinking about style.  We’ve been talking about Clinton’s 4 Items That Don’t Belong In Your Closet, and here are the final two:

Item #3 That Doesn’t Belong In Your Closet = MOM Jeans

So it’s a common enough phrase, but what exactly makes something a MOM jean?  It’s kind of like the old joke about pornography- you know it when you see it.  Remember Jessica Simpson’s high-waisted disaster from last summer?

from ExtraTV.com

She’s taken such a beating for this look, so I’m not going to criticize her (much) here.  But seriously, if those jeans can make someone so pretty look like that, I don’t want any part of them.

The waist is the major problem, but those oversized envelope pockets (which might as well be pleats, aesthetically speaking) don’t help.  And the way the legs are tapered wouldn’t do anyone’s thighs any favors.

Instead, Clinton recommends jeans with the following characteristics:

  • Mid-rise, which hits at a universally flattering point
  • Dark wash- not only flattering but also polished and chic
  • A bit of stretch (to keep things clean and tailored)
  • Either a straight leg or bootcut, classic silhouettes that look both modern and timeless

Of course, there are thousands of jeans in the world, and if you want to find the right ones, you’ve got to try, try, try.  On WNTW, participants sometimes try on 25 pairs before finding the right ones, but it is so worth it.  We all know how fabulous our favorite jeans feel, and the confidence and comfort we have while wearing them.

Lauren by Ralph Lauren Bootcut Jeans ($59.50 at Nordstrom.com)

So follow Stacy and Clinton’s instructions, and give yourself the gift of time.  They specifically recommended three hours a month- just three hours away from kids, jobs, and other responsibilities.  Three hours are attainable, and they’re all you need to find that perfect pair of jeans.  Because I know we all love shopping online (believe me, I LOVE shopping online), but for this mission there’s no substitute for the dressing room.

In order to maximize your shopping trip, though, you can definitely go online for information about specific brands, cuts, etc.  FH’s own Jaime exhaustively covers this topic on her blog Denim Debutante, so read up and shop prepared!

And…

Item #4 That Doesn’t Belong in Your Closet = Sneakers

Okay, obviously we all need sneakers for certain occasions.  But Clinton says think twice before wearing them outside the gym.  His easy substitutions?

  • A great flat for anytime
  • A sandal for summer
  • A boot for winter

That’s it!  Three shoes and you’re ready to take on the world!  And if you’re ever wavering (as I was this weekend), thinking, “Well, I’m just dashing to the store so my running shoes are fine,” remember that Clinton calls that look “Richard Simmons”.

Now, I have such a soft spot for Richard Simmons, who truly has been a fitness pioneer, but no.  None of us need to copy his style.

Just a sampling of the more polished options Clinton suggests, in neutral colors and classic styles that can be worn for many years (and all on sale!):

L to R: Joan and David Ashling ballet flats ($179.95 to $98.97 at Endless.com), B2 by Bernardo Rita sandals ($65 to $19.99), Aerosoles Archive boots ($99.95 to $44.99 at OnlineShoes.com)

L to R: Seychelles Square Dance flats ($80 to $39.99 at Piperlime.com), Donald Pliner Kim slide sandals ($275 to $100), Wanted Turbo boots ($79.99 to $39.90 at Endless.com)

Many, many thanks to Stacy and Clinton for such wonderful tips!  And if (like me!) you can’t get enough, remember to watch the new season of What Not To Wear, Friday nights on TLC!

Lucie Amberg is the Director of ZinaBeverlyHills.com.

RS image from xomba.com.

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Advice Directly from Stacy and Clinton- Part 2

February 4, 2010 By

So I was telling you about meeting What Not To Wear’s Stacy and Clinton at the Discovery Communications’ 25th anniversary gala.  Despite being overwhelmed with eager admirers and reporters, they took time to speak directly to FH readers.

We had a fabulous conversation about the stresses women face and how someone can empower herself by taking control of her style.  Stacy expressed it like this: You should think of yourself as a snowflake.  No one else has your eyes, your hair, your features, and your personality. Of course, at the end of a long day (or the start of a long one), a lot of us don’t feel like delicate snowflakes.  But you know, when I think of the way I can stare at my nieces and nephews, they all seem like snowflakes to me- totally unique, precious, and irreplaceable.  I can only imagine how overwhelming that feeling must be when you’re watching your own children!  And at some point in our lives, someone’s felt that way about each of us, probably more times than we could guess.  So I think hanging onto a little of that feeling can help us treat ourselves like the unique, special snowflakes Stacy described, and that’s crucial to making your style a priority.

If you watch WNTW, you know that this idea is integral to the whole approach.  Unlike a lot of the “makeover” show imitators that just slap a new outfit on a woman and send her back out into the world, Stacy and Clinton help each participant craft a message with her clothing.  In fact, many of the women who appear on WNTW go on to make big life changes- everything from ending a destructive relationship to going after a dream job.  It all starts with a great, new look!

Naturally, if you want to create that great look, you’ve got to have the right building blocks, and you have to make room for those building blocks by clearing out the pieces that aren’t doing your wardrobe any favors.  In the last post, we started talking about Clinton’s 4 Items That Don’t Belong in Your Closet.  Here’s #2:

Item #2 That Doesn’t Belong in Your Closet = Tee-Shirts

Wow.  This is a tough one.  Tees are staples for the gym, and can’t they transition to other areas of your life?  Personally, I use them as layering pieces, and since you can often buy them for $5 a piece at Old Navy, why not?  Still, there’s no denying Clinton’s point when he says that a blouse is more polished.  Now, I know the word “blouse” has a “Great Grandmama’s bridge party” connotation, but Clinton just described it as something with structure, maybe darts.  At its most basic, a blouse is an item that is likely to keep its shape after multiple wears.  (Sorry Old Navy tees, but you know that doesn’t apply to you.)

You might prefer bright colors or neutrals or patterns, but in general it’s a good idea to own some variety.  Different necklines are great, too, but even casual viewers of WNTW know how much Stacy and Clinton LOVE V-necks, which elongate and flatter many figures.  I put together a selection of blouses I like, and there’s a bonus- everything below costs less than a pedicure (and I’m not just talking about the “treat yourself” kind from a spa, but even the cheap kind you get at the spur-of-the-moment)!

L to R: JM Collection printed top ($46.00 to $27.60), Style & Co. printed top ($14.98), Style & Co. printed top ($14.98)

L to R: AGB scoopneck top ($44.00 to $24.20), Talbots Starburst blouse ($79.00 to $29.99), Worthington blouse ($30.00 to $17.99)

L to R: Worthington wrap top ($36.00 to $21.99), Merona smocked hem top ($17.99), Newport News sash-tie blouse ($39.00 to $19.00)

L to R: east 5th ruched blouse ($30.00 to $14.99), Victoria’s Secret V-neck top ($28.00), Mossimo Cascade top ($19.99)

Next, Clinton’s last two Items that Don’t Belong in Your Closet…

Lucie Amberg is the Director of ZinaBeverlyHills.com.

Enter to win the limited edition Kiss, Kiss Pendant at the Zina Beverly Hills blog!

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Advice Directly from Stacy and Clinton- Part 1

February 1, 2010 By

Well, I can go ahead and slack off for the rest of 2010 because I have already had a fabulous experience.  I recently attended the Discovery Communications’ 25th anniversary gala, where I saw many familiar faces from the Discovery networks.  Everyone from the Pitmasters to the stars of Little People, Big World were wandering about- snacking on cool creations from the Future Food chefs and admiring giraffes from Animal Planet.  I don’t have to tell you who the biggest attractions were.  Despite being inundated with reporters, though, What Not to Wear’s Stacy and Clinton took time to speak directly to FH readers.  I am pleased to tell you that they are both just as charming, funny, and gracious as you could hope, and we talked about a subject that is near-and-dear to my heart.

See, I have this theory that one time back in the 70s there was this woman who ran her own corporation and had an amazing marriage.  She had at least five kids, who all grew up to be thoughtful, kind, successful adults, and she always had time for all of them.  In her spare time, she founded a nonprofit and learned how to cook perfectly spiced Italian food.  Oh, and she was also gorgeous and witty and had an incredible sense of style.  And this woman completely screwed it up for the rest of us by creating the myth of “having it all.”  Now we all think we’re supposed to “have it all,” but I’ve never met anyone who does!  No, I’m pretty sure that woman is an urban legend. In reality, we all make choices, which means we make sacrifices.  And for too many women, the go-to sacrifice is “me.”

If you watch WNTW, you’ve probably heard Stacy talk about style being a means for women to take control over their lives.  It’s this philosophy that totally separates WNTW from the numerous “makeover” show imitators.  I talked to Stacy and Clinton about how hard it is for women who feel pulled in so many directions to put themselves on the to-do list.  Stacy was adamant that investing in yourself is really about time, not money. Clinton agreed, suggesting that women find a few hours a month and do something for themselves.  He particularly stressed going shopping- even if you don’t buy anything.  Just taking time to try on clothes you like reinforces the idea that you are a priority, and with all the responsibilities women juggle these days, it’s way too easy to lose sight of that.

Those who closely follow Clinton may have heard him talk about the 4 Items That Don’t Belong in Your Closet.  He and I discussed them in depth, so I thought it would be fun to review them here.

Item #1 That Doesn’t Belong in Your Closet = Hoodie

Yes, I know.  A lot of people really love hoodies.  But think hard.  Can you ever remember seeing someone in a hoodie and remarking, “Wow, that’s a great look!”  Me neither.  Clinton recommends a nice jacket instead, something with structure and shape. Now, I know that anyone who already feels stressed and strapped doesn’t want to run out and buy new clothes, but just check out what you can get for the cost of two bottles of (not even spectacular) wine.

Jackets for

L to R: Gap cropped jacket in Navy ($69.50 to $34.99), Chadwicks tux blazer ($49.99 to $29.99), Old Navy distressed denim jacket ($34.50)

L to R: Charter Club printed corduroy jacket ($69.00 to $39.99), Lands End stretch twill jacket ($69.50 to $39.99)

And here’s what you can get for less than dinner and a movie.

Jackets for

L to R: Ann Taylor Loft casual anorak ($69.50), Ann Taylor Loft white denim jacket ($69.50), NY & Co. linen blend jacket ($59.95)

If you’re willing and able to spend more, there are tons of good options.  For anyone in that position, I recommend something like this:

Marc New York brown leather jacket ($274.49 at Bluefly.com)

Obviously, that’s a bigger commitment, but investing in a few timeless pieces is a great way to make yourself a priority.  And according to Stacy and Clinton, it’s a must for 30-something women who are transitioning their style!

Next up, Item #2 That Doesn’t Belong in Your Closet…

Lucie Amberg is the Director of ZinaBeverlyHills.com.

Enter to win the limited edition Kiss, Kiss Pendant at the Zina Beverly Hills blog!

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New Book: Fashion For Dummies by Jill Martin

December 2, 2009 By

fashion for dummiesFashion For Dummies is your full-color guide to building a fun, functional wardrobe.

    “In Fashion for Dummies, fashion expert and three-time Emmy-nominated television personality Jill Martin and co-author Pierre Lehu help readers build a stylish and functional wardrobe suitable for every occasion. Whether it’s a holiday-chic cocktail party, an 11:00 AM wedding in February, or just an everyday business casual, Jill Martin has you covered. Part reference, part tutorial, the book offers advice on finding clothes that work with your body type and personal style, as well as practical tips on garment construction and navigating the worlds of color, pattern, and texture.

In tough financial times, it’s easy to shy away from spending money on clothes – especially designer clothes. Fashion for Dummies shows you how to put together a high-quality wardrobe without breaking the bank. Shoes, jewelry, and other accessories are given ample coverage, and there’s even a section dedicated to menswear with discussion on basic cuts and styles. Martin’s friendly guidance and professional tips will sharpen your shopping skills and show you how to buy clothing that will look great for years to come.

    “Packed with photos and illustrations, this full color guide also includes top ten lists such as “Ten Faux Pas and How to Avoid Them.” You’ll also find words of fashion wisdom from top designers and celebrities such as Betsey Johnson, Tory Burch, Cynthia Rowley, and Tyson Beckford. Go from novice fashion-hunter to seasoned fashionista with Fashion for Dummies!”

After that intro, I was sold! Naturally, I was thrilled to receive my review copy of Fashion For Dummies and it did not disappoint!

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Biggest Beauty Mistake For Women Over 40

July 20, 2009 By

What’s the biggest beauty mistake the over-40-year-old woman makes?

a_lip-linerAs women, we don’t want to get older. Waking up and seeing yet another wrinkle on our face can get really depressing. Wearing too much makeup is not a good way to combat signs of aging though. If you have wrinkles around your lips, be careful with lip liner. Lip liner can accentuate lines around the mouth, especially if you wear dark lip liner. Choose a light pink lipliner and apply carefully, always following your natural lip liner.

The biggest beauty mistake you can make is wearing lip liner that is darker than your lipstick or your natural lip color. Think about what happens when your lipstick wears off and your lip liner is still there. Not a pretty picture! As we age, our lips lose moisture and lipstick might not stay put like it used to. Opt for a long-lasting lipcolor. Many companies these days have addressed the need for lipstick that lasts more than a few hours and this is especially handy for middle aged women with dryer lips. Don’t use bright, dark, metallic or iridescent shades. Instead go for a warm rose color and clear gloss on top.

Muah!!

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What Not To Wear: Denim Outfits

June 3, 2009 By

doubledenim

There appears to be a new trend cropping up that needs to be stopped in it’s tracks and that is denim outfits, respectfully known as “Double Denim”. It’s a crime against fashion and you need to know the repercussions of allowing such a heinous trend to become popular.

The 80′s brought many bad trends like perms, mullets, acid wash jeans and plethora of other trends that should never be revived. One of those trends is denim outfits.

What is a denim outfit?

    A denim outfit is wearing anything more than one article of clothing made out of denim. A denim jacket with denim jeans is just about the ugliest thing in the world, whether it’s matching denim, 2 different colors of denim or just mismatched washes. It’s ugly.

Who is responsible for reviving this god-forsaken trend?

Why can’t I wear denim outfits?!

    Because it just doesn’t look good! If you wear a denim jacket with matching denim pants then you might as well go ahead and wear a tie dye shirt underneath, get a perm, wear go-go boots because if you’re gonna look stupid, you might as well go all out.
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